I agree with Tucson, maybe this is a reaction to something you said/did or is assumed you did/said. Perhaps talking with her you can get to the bottom of where this is coming from and maybe resolve it without the legal system. I would feel so betrayed and hurt by those actions too. My independence means the world to me and to have someone try to take that away from me would make me rabid. I have a low tolerance for those who control others. So I really do get where you're coming from with that. I really hope it can be worked out. Keep us updated. I hope for the best!