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I think its good that he took a stand and asked her to leave but the fact that he has to take a stand at all is worrisome. Its worrisome because unless he seriously sets boundaries and keeps to them every single time she will continue to do these things. The question is can you live with this? What if she never changes or changes for a while and reverts back? Are you willing to have to repeatedly revisit these issues? I do not see her changing but he can. But him changing may not be enough. You have to decide if this is what you want. Marriage will not change her and he may only be able to stand up so much.
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