Neither of my Ts have refused to answer questions. There have been times I have said before asking the question it is okay to not answer but they always have. Sometimes they give more details than I was seeking.

When my daughter was looking at colleges she told me she went there for a year and transferred out. The next week O told her she didnt have to answer but I wondered why she transferred. She told me about how she got married right out of high school and was attending college there as was he and many of their friends. The marriage ended very quickly and she decided it was best for everybody involved if she transferred schools.