how can I get rid of useful destructive polish my father's lesson like listening that Dominik (the son of my stepmather) listens becaue he received big amount of properties so I responsed I listen as Well and it does not make logic because according to my stepfather;s i should not have car and no 2 rooms so I just changed phone number and it was one of the most fruitful, powerful decision I reckon.

Please help me replace above mentioned incidents with costructive.