You don't have to have a mental health issue to be a member of this site. Anyone is welcome to join and interact. It's probably not what you were thinking about either when you asked your intitial question. However, given what this guy did share with you, it's actually beneficial that you did share and he ended giving you a very important thing for you to learn about too. Sometimes, something can shed some light once you learn more about a person and it's nice to have others that can help you with that too.