No one can tell you what to do, and no one is being judgmental. We are all just saying what we see as objective 3rd parties. And what many people are saying is that this man seems very shady. There is no reason he shouldn't be able to lay all the cards on his table and not use vague terms like "business plan" when he means organized crime. Yes, every one deserves a chance but not at the risk of your safety. You keep saying that there are no safety concerns, but you are ignoring that he has people protecting him. So YES, there are safety concerns and you should be concerned for your safety. If you are willing to risk that, great, keep dating him. It sounds like a dangerous relationship, and based on your accounts, he does not sound trustworthy, and I would be very concerned for every aspect of my life, getting involved with a person like this.

If that's all okay by you, and you're willing to deal with the consequences, then by all means, stay with him. Just know what you're getting into.