Omg I just now see this thread.

This woman is unbelievable and so is your fiancée by allowing it. It sounds so incredibly stressful.

Personally I understand having difficult relatives and at times you have to put up with it to a degree as long as a couple is on the same page (my husband and I have our share of questionable relatives!).

But in your situation this woman is meddling in your life so badly! Terrorizes and abuses you and treats her son like he is a toddler. This isn’t going to get better unless you two move far away from mommy and he puts a stop to her abusing you. How old are you? From the sound of it you two struggle financially living in a council flat. Is he contributing? Does he have a job? Do you? Are you still in school?

Personally I think you are better off ending it and moving on. One day you’ll find the right person. He isn’t the one

Best wishes