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I should also mention that I am - currently - fine with not having anything to call him/our relationship, it's just something that I feel will drag on forever if we can't reach an agreement, and that's why I keep bringing it up.
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If you are fine with everything - currently - what about letting it go for now and waiting until such time as you are not fine?
It sounds like he has been crystal clear about not wanting to discuss it.
But maybe you are not fine with it:
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I'm not okay with the ambivalence of it
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I feel will drag on forever if we can't reach an agreement, and that's why I keep bringing it up
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What brings you to think it will drag on forever if you can't reach an agreement now?
I do wonder how much of an "agreement" of the hearts you will truly reach if he ever starts to feel compelled to discuss it.
Sometimes sitting with ambivalence for a time is a lesser evil.