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Originally Posted by stopdog
Actually - the first woman kept trying to get me to engage in chatting with her because she mistakenly thought it meant we would bond. Those guys need to be a lot clearer about what they are doing at clients with this sort of crap.
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That's the thing, my T will often chat with me about stuff. Even today, I was saying something and he was like, "Oh that reminds me of this funny commercial." So I asked about it, and he shared. We've chatted about movies, TV shows, political stuff (once he finally revealed he shared views with me). Honestly, I think that's what's difficult about it, how we can just chat about things some of the time, and it can just feel like a normal relationship, then suddenly I'll say or ask something, and it's like BOUNDARIES UP! I suppose that can happen in a friendship or romantic relationship, too, but this just seems especially glaring.