Remember luvurself, a person that wants power over you often will make you THINK he/she can make sure your needs are met.

Everything was great for 3 months, or whatever short time, WHAT HAPPENED?

It's especially hard when one is in a relationship with a narcissist. Everything seems so perfect and wonderful at first, cloud 9 until it's not. The person who THOUGHT they had the power never EVER really had it. By the time they end and get away from that relationship, they feel devasted and POWERLESS. Most need therapy, some for a while to slowly find their power back.