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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
Come to think of it, this is pretty much an issue across the board regarding many people and my self esteem. “I have value no matter how others treat me!” Great fact to remember. Thanks!
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Tisha, that wasn't the point, and I am sure you know this.
My point is that I learned that I had to give myself what I was seeking from my abuser.... the validation, self-love and self-worth that I wanted HIM to acknowledge & give to me. The main point is that we have to find self-worth for ourselves... it's an inward job. If self-worth is something that is missing, it's something to be worked on. That is what I am doing myself. HUGS.