LT, I am not sure but perhaps there is less meaning in all this than you are trying to find, at least as far as the Ts behavior goes. To me it just sounds like normal human behavior with its often random and inconsistent nature. I think many clients expect Ts to be kinda superhuman consistent but it's just not going to happen, in part because so many choices and actions are made unconsciously in the moment. Didn't he say a couple times when you questioned him about some things that he didn't/doesn't think about it nearly as much as you do? Of course then we can become conscious of it and analyze it, but that won't prevent it from happening in the future. Just how the brain works.