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Originally Posted by with fishes
Of course, there's also my once-husband whom I still love to consider. G. knows about my feelings and is very understanding about it. But maybe he is still uncertain of wether or not I would leave him and go back to once-husband if I got the chance?
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Do you have conflicted feelings inside about wanting to be with your ex? Your initial post states that you would still love to consider him... ?
Perhaps you mean in a way different than being with him again?
Or, are you conflicted?
This would be the one reason why I could see G being reluctant, insecure and also referring to your relationship as a "little affair".
Perhaps you're giving off different signals to G by remaining in touch with your ex.
In my humble opinion, it is healthiest for the current relationship that neither partner is in close touch with their ex's.
I totally understand given your history with your ex, but when it's over, it's really over and moving on means fully letting go and not being in contact anymore. But that's just my opinion!
I think what I am trying to say is that your actions could be contradictory to your words and G may be reading into your actions, without maybe even being fully aware.