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Old Jun 15, 2019, 10:06 AM
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Originally Posted by golden_eve View Post
Do you have conflicted feelings inside about wanting to be with your ex? Your initial post states that you would still love to consider him... ?

Perhaps you mean in a way different than being with him again?
Or, are you conflicted?
Yes, I meant it in a different way - I do still love him, but I am not conflicted at all about not wanting to be with him. I think it's entirely possible to still care for someone you've spent most of your life with, while not wanting to be in a relationship with them ever again. We were not healthy for each other at all. I'm not "close" with my ex. We text each other every once in a while to keep tabs on what's going on in our lives, but that's the extend of it. He's depressed and has virtually no support system, so I worry. I am aware he's not my responsibility.

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I think what I am trying to say is that your actions could be contradictory to your words and G may be reading into your actions, without maybe even being fully aware.
That's what I think now too, after some contemplation. It would make sense.
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