I think the same pattern is happening with me and relationships. I made friends with somebody last year and while I have been very careful about boundaries and my privacy.... I see a pattern developing. I find myself being the listener and the helper and it’s minimally reciprocated. It’s not extreme like it has been with me and past friendships but I do see the pattern. I wonder why that is? What am I supposed to do... not ever offer a listening ear or support to anybody?