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Originally Posted by Sisabel
Well. Here’s a thought. Maybe I’m not as good a listener as I think I am? Maybe I don’t offer the empathy and advice that I think I do? Maybe my friendships are more of a reflection of myself than I think. I don’t know. But I will say this... I do spend more time, in general, responding to other people’s texts and not getting responses back when I text. Or gradually I end up becoming more and more of a listener when things didn’t start out that way. I’ll look at my own behaviors more closely though. I’m doing something that doesn’t make for good friendships...
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If you get any insight into this, let us know. It's easy to avoid relationships that are extremely lopsided to begin with but it is harder when they develop this feature slowly over time.