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Default Jun 16, 2019 at 05:03 AM
 
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Originally Posted by AspiringAuthor View Post
Have you tried dating other men while having this relationship with G? It sounds like you decided that you did not want to, and did not try, but it might be worth trying, both to change the power dynamic and to bring more fun in your life -between once husband and G, your emotions are in overdrive and it would be good to have a light relationship now. Just a thought.
They sleep together so it would be wise to inform other dates that she is intimate with another man. It might not bother other causal dates but most people would be apprehensive.

Personally I think dating even more men now isn’t a healthy strategy under these circumstances. Wanting committed relationship with one man while loving another and now casually dating even more men doesn’t strike me as healthy way of going about it. It muddles the true much deeper issue here, which if not addressed will continue surfacing

Plus it’s not very fair to prospective dates, even if casual
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