I stop myself from asking my T questions because I have an inherent feeling it is in approiate, but she has slowly disclosed more to me over the years, which has helped. But i do remember asking her once how she was and she just started talking about the weather. I think not knowing much about her life is a good thing for me because i reckon i would use that information against her and deem her incompetent or too priviledged to be my therapist.