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Originally Posted by Sisabel
So here’s an idea I have for setting limits and giving myself space. When I find myself frustrated, I can take time away from the person. Maybe just a few days or maybe a few weeks. I’ll need to remember that my red flag is my own frustration and irritation. That’s my cue to retreat for a bit. [emoji3590]
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This is a very good idea also for me. It's really important to recognize that one's red flags are often how one feels and does not necessitate figuring out another persons intentions. It's about respecting one's own boundaries. I am also getting better at limiting certain types of conversations.
I find it is hard to change a pattern in a friendship once that pattern has been established. It is easier to set limits up front.