A warm hello to All!


Just checking in. Have been reading here. Thought I would sign in and say hello.


I am going through a very bizarre separation/divorce. It all came about rather suddenly when I had discovered my H was/is leading an entirely different life, one I have not known about... and one I cannot imagine living along with him, thankfully.


I threw him out 3 weeks ago with just the shirt on his back, his meds and his car keys. While that may not seem like enough, it is much more than he deserves at this point. Believe me. (He is living with his parents for now.)


I have made more and more discoveries almost every day throughout the past 3 weeks. I am in shock and very baffled. He shows no remorse at all. None.


This is not the guy I had married and had lived with for the past 27 years. I do not know who he is; I am repulsed by him. Even so, I have to deal with him because our finances and our property are intertwined. I have been working on changing that as quickly as possible... it will not happen soon enough.


What a shocker! What a nightmare!


I am exhausted from a lack of sleep and from trying to cope with the revelations each day for the past 3 weeks. Just when I think there cannot possibly be more, there is a lot more.


I have been seeing my pdoc every week. She has been adjusting my meds again due to the stress involved.


I was given Seroquel. I believe the Seroquel is causing a lot of hunger...I usually lose weight in these types of circumstances.; this time, I am gaining weight quite quickly.


I have a few autoimmune medical conditions. Each one has been flaring due to the stress.


I hope you can understand why I might not be here as often as I would like to be here, at least for now.


I wish each and every one of you the very best!


Love to ALL!