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Old Jun 17, 2019, 02:03 AM
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Originally Posted by arminrye View Post
Thank you so much. I really have to choose my battles. This isn't worth the stress and feeling of toxic.
You're welcome!

I'm not really sure why but society has gotten quite loopy about infidelity or anything approximating it. If it's not me or my other 1/2, it's not my business. I hope you can relax and find some peace. Things will figure themselves out. Things have a habit of doing that, one way or another

A wise therapist once told me: "unless you have good reason to believe that your friend's life is in jeopardy, keep your mouth shut." We weren't talking about infidelity directly (though my friend later wound up being ditched by a two-timer I didn't like from Day 1) but you see her point. I remind myself of it often. Eyes on my own yoga mat!