Yes, I can't say how important to me it is that he thinks about my case/ me outside of session; I want him to processes our session, and give thought to our relationship and me. If I found out he shut the office door and never thought about me again, I would quit that day. Keeping someone in mind/ object constancy/ real attachment- these are things we talk about so if it were just lipservice I would be crushed. If a T has 15- to 40 clients, their wellbeing is on that T's watch.