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Originally Posted by hvert
I have the same pattern. It's better now than it used to be, but I still find myself slipping into that listener role. Part of it is that I don't like to talk about myself which leaves a vacuum someone has to fill, I guess. Do you notice that at all?
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Yes I do. I’m very private and I’m pretty quiet. That does create a space for another person to fill and then I’m frustrated later at the crowding of my space. So maybe we like that quiet empty space and taking time away from people here and there can help us to get that space back.