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TishaBuv
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Default Jun 17, 2019 at 08:49 AM
 
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Originally Posted by golden_eve View Post


Tisha, that wasn't the point, and I am sure you know this.

My point is that I learned that I had to give myself what I was seeking from my abuser.... the validation, self-love and self-worth that I wanted HIM to acknowledge & give to me. The main point is that we have to find self-worth for ourselves... it's an inward job. If self-worth is something that is missing, it's something to be worked on. That is what I am doing myself. HUGS.
We are both saying the same thing. We are in agreement. I was thanking you for giving me the phrase to remember to tell myself when invalidated by others.

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