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Originally Posted by DP_2017
I didn't realize your mc also did individual with you.
I wouldn't be too concerned if he finds you attractive or not. That will just make things harder on your end. Nothing can come of it anyway
Baby t used to often say, it's not your concern what others think of you. I never used to get it but ive understood that alot lately.
Sounds intense but hope you are doing ok now. Sorry you had a crap childhood too
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Thanks for the comments. Ex-MC did two individual sessions with me, when I wanted to talk about the transference with him. He refused to do others (despite saying his door was always open to me), even when I requested one a few months later and H was OK with it. Which was hard for me.
And I know it wouldn't be good for me to know if T found me attractive--at one point in a past session, I said how this part of me wanted him to be attracted to me, but I also didn't want to know. Like I tried to make it clear I wasn't asking him the question. It was just awkward having him talk about "really attractive clients" and how he reacts around them with me. Like, talk to a fellow straight male T colleague about that (or just a male friend), not me!
Doing OK, have session in a half hour.