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Originally Posted by Elio
At times yes.
To give another perspective, I sometimes send topics in email or write in my journal ahead of time to give my T heads up because I want her to have had time to think of how to respond to me in a way that would be most helpful for me. I know that if she was to respond in certain ways it would be damaging for our relationship/me. I used to do it a lot early on, it has lessened significantly.
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To me, the situation you describe is quite different from what the OP describes because the dynamic between you and your T looks to me very different from what Lrad has described happening between her and her T. That's why to my mind your perspective is really not applicable in this situation. This is of course only my personal opinion only.