I'm so sorry your partner is treating you this way, @not4me256! He's certainly not supportive AT ALL which must make your sex drive even MORE difficult! I know that may be a little bit too much to ask, but are you sure he's the right partner for you? How are things going with him in other parts of your relationship? Is he kind? Is he treating you well! Try to ask yourself that! You deserve better! Either way, I hope things will get better soon for you! Thank you ALL so much for sharing your experiences! It must be VERY difficult to deal with ALL of this! I hope your partners are at least trying to be supportive! I wish you ALL peace and serenity! I hope things will get better for ALL of you! Sending many safe, warm hugs to ALL OF YOU, ANYONE OF YOU, ALL OF YOU WISE AND WONDERFUL PEOPLE, RUESIA, NOT4ME256, EVERYBODY AND EVERYONE OF YOU!