Sorry for all the typos in my last post it was too late to fix it. I actually when to church today and was running late. Sunrise, I have a lot of other thoughts on the good things our children are learning from witnessing our struggles. I don't have time to write them out today.

Unfortunately, because of the type of relationships we've known, we've been conditioned over many many years to devalue, discount, and dismiss all of the positive things about ourselves. We have to fight hard not to allow ourselves to fall back into the unhealthy pattern of focusing on all the negatives and all of our faults. Sounds like now would be a good time to break out the Patricia Evans book and refresh your memory about how your husband works his magic. Disarm him! Even though you are physically separated he is using the divorce process as a final assault. He is loosing his power source and is attempting to use his best weapon against your inner self--YOU. The only difference is that in his arrogance he hasn't realized YOU are not the same. You are stronger and much much smarter now. We are here to help you fight his attack. Dissolve the illusions he trying to create, and remember how far you have come.