One time she said something weird like "when I think of you outside of this room." I felt sort of shocked because it had never occurred to me that she had ever done that. But I think it must be when I have texted her. So then the answer is yes, because if I contact her, there's a reason for it.

I just don't ever want her thinking about me in a I'm-going-down-to-the-magistrate's-office-and-having-Susannah-committed sort of way. That goes for in or outside of sessions.