M, my T, embraces that trauma work is messy, and is forgiving of me and himself. He is insightful and has a beautiful turn of phrase that often stay with me. He is very funny, with a black humor that genuinely makes me laugh in the midst of struggle. He is very experienced with life, live, and listening, so that his calm makes me calm. He is also quite a character, with idiosyncrasies . He is really preppy, like from a gone by time , with lovely manners . He is rock solid on professional boundaries.