Yes, you are right about everything you said. The reason i was IP for included.

Im not planning on hiding it all forever if things keep going on between us, but i think full disclosure at the first "date" (its just lunch break spent together) would be too much for both of us.

Im choosing to start seeing him out of workplace because i like him, he makes me feel well and he gives me some hope. And since it all started from him, i think its worth giving it a try...

I may be wrong, but i feel i need to give it a chance...