I hear you, golden_eve! I don't share almost ANYTHING to other people in my life! I can DEFINITELY relate to what you and all the other wise, wonderful posters are saying! I DO believe it is important to have at least a FEW trusted people whom we can vent to. At the same time, sometimes there are just some things that we don't feel comfortable sharing with anyone and that's PERFECTLY OK! Different methods work for different people! I believe it's all a matter of wheter you feel ok with this or whether you want to change this behavior. If this is ok with you and you've just wanted to know whether people could relate to, that's ok! Either way, I know what you mean! I hope PC is at least a little bit helpful to you even though you may not want to share EVRYTHING of course! I wish you ALL a WONDERFUL day! Sending many safe, warm hugs to you, golden_eve, and to EVERYONE!