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Old Jun 18, 2019, 09:01 AM
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Originally Posted by SalingerEsme View Post
I am also bemused that my T will sometimes share something pretty person, but then refuse to say why he chose a huge print for the wall of the waiting room. I've found out things just from life happening- such as that my T dislikes/is allergic to dogs ( I love them), bc the office down the hall brought one and let it wander the floor. His face told all, so then he sheepishly confessed . He nodded to my dog stories, and gave no sign before that. That is when I realized therapy is a strange interaction.
Maybe a client gave him the picture. Last week as part of grounding Emdr T askes what I saw. I pointed out a picture on the wall. She told me that a former client gave it to her and what it represented. She told me the only reason she was telling me anything was because when the client gave it to her, she asked if it would be okay to tell future people where she got it.
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Thanks for this!
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