- She is receptive to my anger.
- She isn't stupid.
- She will counter things I say that she disagrees with using arguments that I can appreciate - meaning that she makes appeals to logic rather than emotion, because she knows I value that.
- She is capable of apologizing, but also hasn't apologized every single time I was angry just to smooth things over. Disingenuous apologies do not pacify me and are a pet peeve.
- She doesn't sugar coat everything and tell me what an amazing person I am all the time and act like I can do no wrong.
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Life is hard. Then you die. Then they throw dirt in your face.
-David Gerrold
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