Blueberrybook, I'm glad you're starting to feel better! It sounds like a good idea to lessen your husband's commute. There are so few hours in the day for family and yourself when you work full-time.

I wouldn't worry about the bra. I have a couple tight shirts that I don't wear a bra with, and I'm a "C" cup. They look fine, especially if you've still got some perk. My husband is a European. He's told me many times not to bother with a bra, in some cases.