((((((((( may24 ))))))))
I can relate I also feel my mother’s emotional neglect has caused me more pain than the abuse from other abusers . I definitely don’t think it’s a good idea to look for a “strong” older woman to look up to and be close to, there are too many people around who take advantage of any vulnerability .... vulnerability which is absolutely normal to have after a profoundly neglectful and abusive childhood. On the other hand, having close friends can be very healing. Just be very careful who you trust. I’ve been burnt many times by people I somewhat trusted Although I’ve always been hypervigilent, some emotional predators somehow slipped past my radar I also have trust issues