@theoretical
if someone needs recognition from a great number of people in order to feel happy, they're likely missing the point.

I agree 100%

others would argue that the individual's identity develops alongside and with reference to other individuals. You seem to be in favor of the latter, that one needs external relationships in order to develop as an individual.

I was not actually suggesting this. I've lived a very different life from a lot of people. I've been on my own a lot and dealt with life's hurdles independently. Including in a foreign country. I have developed as an individual without frequent and close contact with others. A doctor who I shared my story with was amazed by what I've survived without a support network. But it wasn't very happy or comfortable for me if that makes sense. Though I am capable of creating happiness on my own. I go out alone a lot. It doesn't make me uncomfortable. I was talking more about enjoying life in a different way via closeness with others. I think it would be lovely to have a few folks or more to see regularly and connect with. Lovely but not essential....my life thus far was proof of that. Plenty of people are alone and still have distinctive characters and a lot to offer society. Do i sound contradictory? Unintended.