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Jun 19, 2019, 06:34 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2004
Location: Kentucky, USA
Posts: 25,078
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Sorry this is  but
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Originally Posted by Open Eyes
You don't have to feel the feelings necessarily, your response to the dilemma with the bird could merely see that I was bothered and to solve the problem by finding a ladder and scissors and cutting that bird loose.
Often times a person's emotions can get in the way of solving problems.
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So which was it? Did you ask specifically for a ladder & scissors so you could help the bird yourself or did you just:
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I did make sure everyone that came in saw this bird all tangled and struggling so much trying to get free. No one wanted to do anything or even showed concern for that matter.
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Big difference between these 2 approach actions. The first is problem solving yourself....the second is expecting others to do the problem solving & expecting them to read your mind as to what you are wanting to happen.
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