At times I've felt sexually attracted to my therapist. Other times, not at all. It comes and goes. I used to feel guilty about it because I'm also in a relationship and so is he. But I don't feel guilty anymore. I think it's just part of what can happen when two adults sit alone together and share intimate things. In my case, if I'd met my therapist outside of therapy and we were both single, he's someone I'd want to date. But I know realistically that it's never going to happen and I just have to let the attraction come and go as it does. I've never mentioned it to him and I don't plan on it because I'm worried he might choose to refer me to another therapist if I made the mistake of saying too much.