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eskielover · Jun 19, 2019, 11:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Open Eyes

Nope wasn't like that, pretty much everyone walked away, did not care and it was not seeing me doing anything no one was there when the problem was finally fixed. It was more that no one wanted to stop and help the bird, looked up and walked away, no concern at all. More like it was stupid to care sentiment.

Just curious....what did you expect them to do? You were looking for a ladder & you had access to scissors.

I am a total logical problem solver. I see a problem....I figure out how to solve it & take care of what is necessary to do. It doesn't take being empathetic to care or take care of a problem that needs taken care of.

I stop in the middle of the road with my flashers on to move turtles across the road. I just do it without needing anyone else to stop & say ah, turtle in trouble. It doesn't bother me that other cars drive by without stopping & agreeing that the turtle needs help. My expectations are all about what I need to do to solve the problem not have others agree that it is a problem that needs solved. I really don't even care what others think when I KNOW that there is a problem I need to solve.

When I caught the home care person abusing my mom when she was dying of cancer, the home care person was connected to my mom's BF. I had security escort them out of the hospital after they found her. I knew what needed to be done & I only cared about my mom's safety at that point. Her friends said I was overreacting. Not hardly after everything I experienced over the previous 5 days & the fact the home care person gave my mom a hand full of morphine that morning. Some action we just have to take without anyone telling us it is ok or not or even agreeing with us.

Just like slamming the door in their face. You KNOW what action you need to take & you are the one to do it because you know what you need to do whether they like it or not or whether they agree with you or not. We don't need everyone to agree with us to know what we need to do.