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Old Jun 20, 2019, 04:33 AM
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Golden eve, i completely agree with what you're saying. Thank you so much for being honest with me and warning me pointing things out and helping me keeping my eyes wide open. I'll be careful. I dont want to hurt him in any way. I'll be careful, i promise.

I wanted to be more honest with you but I didn’t want to upset you or make you feel like your judgement is poor. I really feel like you should hold back of off on a romantic relationship for now. I think coming from the intensity of an inpatient stay and the reasons you went there might make you

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And i dont have a dependent personality. Actually all the other relationships i had ended because i was too independent. This one wont be different just because AT THE MOMENT im more fragile than usual....
I don’t mean to say that this relationship is doomed and being independent is a good thing. My experience with inpatient was that I also was fragile and vulnerable when I came out. I don’t think allowing my feelings and emotions getting wrapped up would have been healthy. But I am not saying you will get wrapped up or lose control I am just urging you to be cautious and make sure you are friends first.
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