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Originally Posted by KuzMax
Can you propose any other (better in your opinion) way to tell somebody that I don't like (and believe I can find some people who also don't) empty, over-positive messages that don't propose anything particular? That's even hard to read. But I don't want to seem rude for anyone here. I just want let someone know how can one become better at what's one doing. If any criticism, that doesn't related to the person, but to what's he's doing instead, would've been called "rude", how can you imagine our world?
If I give my advice, and someone explains that it's a bad advice in any way, I'll accept it. I do want to know if I'm doing something wrong. And my post is not an exception. If I hurt MickeyCheeky, I am sorry. And if he agrees that it was rude, I accept my fault. But I'd like to hear his opinion instead.
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Thanks for your messages, though. Actually, it doesn't help to rationalize my feelings. And there're some more ways to do good things for other people, rather than volunteering, but they also don't really help. I'm already working on myself, but this emotion can really stuck in my head, so I can't concentrate on work or positive things, so problem is not related to lifestyle or something...
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It’s ok not to like certain kind of messages. The best way is honestly to ignore messages that you don’t find helpful.
After being on here for awhile you’ll eventually know whose messages you find unhelpful so you’d just learn to not pay attention.
If it gets too much and you keep seeing same people posting what you find useless, you can always put people on ignore list. Then you don’t have to see their messages at all (unless in someone’s quotes).