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Originally Posted by theoretical
Honestly, I think this goes a little deeper than simple envy or wanting a girlfriend.
Either way, focus on what steps are needed for you to achieve whatever it is that you desire. For example, you desire to find a girlfriend. What can you do today to work toward becoming a person that a girl would like to date? Maybe that's working on your conversation skills or your physique. Maybe that's finding a hobby that you enjoy and getting good at it (after all, most people find partners in hobbies that they both enjoy). Maybe it's all three.
Keep a journal. Compare yourself to who you were yesterday, a week ago, two months ago.
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I can't work because of my mental illness, and I can't lose weight because of my mental illness.
Most of girls keep saying to me that I'm too fat for them. However, before they get known about this fact, I feel some interest in me
The only woman outside my family I talk to nearly everyday, she's lesbian. So, again, no girl really wants me. And I've got some friends, so I don't feel like the problem is about communication.
Maybe it's totally OK to feel depressed about the fact you're being rejected by the opposite sex, because that's about survival of my bloodline. So that's how my brains' supposed to stimulate me to find a way out of it. But it only makes me think about suicide, so controversial...