I agree with sarahsweets, Pandalover235. It seems clear that he doesn't truly care about you and likely not even about the woman she's currently dating. I feel like he doesn't really deserve more opportunities since he has already broke your trust and it STILL seems like he wants to have it both ways! That would be no for me. Let him lead the life he wants and go on with your own. I know it's hard but I feel like that's the best thing to do for yourself and your children! Keep us updated updated if you want and let us know how it goes! Wish you the best of luck to BOTH you and your children! Sending many safe, warm hugs to you, Pandalover235!