I agree with what all the others have already wisely said better than I ever could, Mountaindewed. Perhaps she just needs to vent to someone when she's experiencing stressful situations. I feel like the best thing you can do is to just be there and tell her that you'll be there for her if she needs advice and support. Just ler her know that you're listening. Whether or not she wants help is up to her. I'm sure she has no bad intentions. Is she there for you when YOU need support? Does she at least listen to what you have to say? You have every right to get support as well after all! I do believe good friendships are mutually beneficial for BOTH of the people involved. Let us know how things are going for you and your friend! Keep us updated if you can and want to! Wish you the best of luck to BOTH you and your friend in BOTH your healing and your lives! Sending many safe, warm hugs to BOTH you and your friend, Mountaindewed!