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Old Jun 22, 2019, 05:08 PM
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Originally Posted by magicalprince View Post
Question to honestly ask yourself... do you genuinely want to help her? What I mean is, if you had a choice between helping her and doing something else that you like to do, which one would you choose?

Some people don't know what they want, and then they go after it, and then they aren't sure if they even got what they were looking for or not. So they try again. Especially if neither side is really sure what's going on, it can continue for quite a long time. This is where it can be useful to use your intuition.
I honestly just don’t want to be rude to her. She for some reason likes me. I think more than I like her. I see her like 85% coworker 15% friend. I think she sees me more like 90% friend 10% coworker. I guess the fact that I fell asleep immediately after asking her what was wrong instead of staying up kinda proves that I am more concerned with the stuff that is going on in my own life.
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