If it's just a hemorrhoid, that can be very painful. The best thing in my experience is absolute cleanliness. What I mean is disinfectant, like alcohol. That immediately burns a lot, but after that you will have some peace. Try it once, and with caution, because maybe I'm just a pervert. It did help me with my hemorrhoid though. If it's a rectal prolapse, you would feel it, and it might help to push it back with your finger.