Ruby,

I'm sorry you're feeling paranoid about people's feelings towards you. I think it will be helpful to remind yourself that your supervisor at Arby's didn't just start acting mean to you for no reason. If you recall, and you have admitted, you were stalking her. Her response to you, therefore, was reasonable considering she felt her space and privacy were violated.

Then with your GM, aren't you flirting with him and behaving inappropriately? Hence, why he would be acting less friendly to you and more authoritative?

I'm sorry you are feeling the way you are feeling, but the reactions of the people you mention are justified, and it's okay that you feel rejected. I'm sorry you feel rejected, but you're also behaving in an inappropriate manner towards them. If you want the feeling of rejection to stop I suggest that you stop behaving inappropriately so people do not feel uncomfortable around you.

What does your case worker say about this? That hourly manager was wrong to call you a creep. That was inappropriate on his part. If you were misbehaving as an employee then that should have been dealt with in a professional manner, not by name calling. I'm sorry he did that to you.

Is it possible you feel the GM is mad and hurtful to you because you have a crush on him and he doesn't reciprocate? It's less that he's being mean to you and more that he's setting healthy boundaries with a subordinate (you).

I commend you, Ruby, for all the work you are doing, but you cannot blame other people for your actions and their consequences.