i understand how you feel. it took me 6 months but i finally left my abusive ex and he followed me. i moved around a lot but he always found me. changed my phone number 3 times. one night he called me over 300 times in 3 hours and left me 3 voicemails of him just breathing into the phone for 5 minutes. i took it to the cops and they blew it off as a young girl being overly dramatic. he threatened to put sugar in my gas tank, blow my car up. he told me he would have his friends waiting outside my work to beat me up unless i came back to be with him. cops didn't do anything. wouldnt give me a restraining order because they said it was my fault for being with him. cops dont give a crap as far as im concerned. so now ive changed my number 4 times and moved 400 miles away and hes still found me and called me several times over a 3 day period so i changed my phone number again. dont rely on the cops - for the most part theyre assholes who don't give a crap about you. (just from personal experience)