Jane here are a couple tricks you can do >>>. Go to local thrift store and buy a pair of size 13 to 15 mens work boots ... A xx large seosonal shirt >> Like flannel.. A pair of size 36 x 44 pants >>>. Every now and then add to the shirt and pants collection .. Leave shoes outside front door and hang shirt and pants on hanger as if drying ,, that is visable to your >>> erm Friend <<<... Subscribe to Soldier of Fortune magazine is a good extra .... Plus articles in there are a bit cool to as to how to fix dumb butts ..

Just a suggestion >>